I Am More Than my Vagina

I Am More Than my Vagina

One of the most annoying things that people ask you when you’re single is “how are you single?” It’s a double edged sword.  On one hand it’s a compliment, as though the person cannot fathom HOW you’ve become available on the...
LOVE || The First Time

LOVE || The First Time

Remember the episode of Sex and the City where Carrie starts dating Aiden and she’s desperate to know why he doesn’t want to sleep with her? “Does he see me as a friend or as a girlfriend?” she asks after a string of dates which ended with the...
LIFE || Great Sexpectations

LIFE || Great Sexpectations

Sex isn’t always all its made out to be, we all have great sexpectations.  For one it isn’t Dirty Dancing style slow dancing beforehand to build up the electric tension, it isn’t romance and rose petals and it isn’t like porn where where...
LIFE || Baby You’re a Firework… But Which?

LIFE || Baby You’re a Firework… But Which?

Ah bonfire night. Another one of the “holidays” of autumn/winter which I look forward to all year round. Whether you’re going to an arranged public bonfire and firework display or spending the night with your nearest and dearest huddled around a...
LIFE || Boo, You Sl*t.

LIFE || Boo, You Sl*t.

I saw this quote on a fellow High Tea Cast-ers article this month, and it practically jumped out my computer screen, did a highland fling infront of my face and then screamed “YOU HAVE TO WRITE ABOUT ME CHARL!” With sl*t shaming becoming the newest excuse...