LOVE || This Is Not A Love Story

Sometimes when you’re going through a break up you want to be molly coddled. Swathed in hugs and showered in tea and sympathy and to be told that everything is going to be okay as you wipe tears and snot up a dirty hoody sleeve that you wear simply because it smells like him.  You watch movies or read books with happy endings and develop this Disney and Hollywood sense of “everything will work out okay in the end” because love prevails and will conquer all.  But it doesn’t. When I’m these moods I watch the likes of 10 Things…

LOVE || In With Your Heart, Out With Your Head

Sometimes in life we have to have those sorts of conversations which we’d rather volunteer for anal surgery than have. We fumble around doing anything but broach that elephant in the room issue knowing full well we’re just masking an issue when we should be facing it head on. It’s at these times when it’s the right time for us to allow our heads to overrule when it comes to matters of the heart. When people say to “trust your gut” do you trust your head or your heart? (I have nothing against my gut, its usually right when deciding…

LOVE || Saying “I Love You”

The first time saying “I love you” to someone is a pretty big deal. I’d go as far to say that it’s a bigger deal than the first time you bump uglies with them. Quite often the moment you find yourself wanting to say “I love you” for the first time isn’t the moment you end up saying it, nor is it the most romantic way nor the most “The Notebook”. I first realised that I wanted to say “I love you” as he was stood in my kitchen cooking us tea in his pants and singing along to Spotify when he thought I…

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