So, Rihanna…

When she was the new girl on the block and queen of Pon de Replay I adored Rihanna, I even adored her when she cranked it up, embraced womanhood and started releasing songs like Rude Boy and Disturbia. She proved that not only is she a bad ass mudda, she has a set of lungs to match and her stage performances ooze confidence. And then she met Chris Brown. A celebrities personal life is exactly that, a personal life and it’s nobody elses business who they choose to love/spend their life with… or is it? Every single degree of a…

Where is the Romance?

In Sex and the City, Carrie Bradshaw talks about “the ick factor” – and the notion that when faced with romance, modern women can’t handle it, that we have become so accustomed to the modern man that “romance” is now a thing of the past. Gone are pages and pages long love letters and in their place we have sexting, pokes on Facebook, “liking” of our photos – we’re so romance starved that should we find a guy who attempts any type of romantic gesture – we don’t know what to do with it and so run for the hills.…

“This Ain’t Disney, B!tch”

Once upon a time there was a gentleman that made my heart pitter patter, and after a couple of weeks worth of text messages being exchanged morning through night, lots of innuendo-ing and those smitten tell tale red faced/goofy smiles. I free falled, crashed and then burned. (the term “falling for” would imply in this instance even a smidge of romance. A free falling,crashlanding-buzz is a much more appropriate description). In an honest exchange that I wasn’t quite used to, it was made clear to me that this little tete-e-tete was no fairytale ending in the making. To be specific,…

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